How well do you know me? 20 questions for friends
A simple set of everyday questions to ask friends — the kind that start a conversation rather than a debate. Decide your own answer first, then ask a friend to guess. For a preference question there is no wrong answer; the fun is in comparing notes.
How to use these
Pick a question, choose the answer that is true for you, and ask a friend what they think you'd pick. Keep it light — these are about the small, ordinary things, not private secrets.
20 questions
- What would I choose for an unplanned free evening?
- What is my go-to order at a coffee shop?
- Which chore do I put off the longest?
- What would I grab first if I had five minutes to pack?
- How do I like my tea or coffee?
- What is my ideal way to spend a Sunday morning?
- Which type of movie do I pick when I cannot decide?
- What snack do I always come back to?
- How do I prefer to travel on a long trip?
- What is the first thing I do when I get home?
- Which season do I enjoy most?
- What would I cook if friends showed up unannounced?
- How do I celebrate a small win at work?
- What is my usual seat — window or aisle?
- Which app do I open first in the morning?
- What do I always add to my plate at a buffet?
- How early do I show up when we make plans?
- What music fits my mood on a slow day?
- What would I do with a surprise free afternoon?
- Which of my everyday habits would surprise you most?
Five of them as four-option cards
Turn a question into four choices so a friend can pick one. You decide your own answer before you ask.
1. What would I choose for an unplanned free evening?
- A: a quiet walk
- B: cooking something new
- C: a board game with friends
- D: reorganising a room
2. What is my go-to coffee-shop order?
- A: plain filter coffee
- B: a milky latte
- C: masala chai
- D: something cold
3. Which chore do I put off the longest?
- A: the dishes
- B: folding laundry
- C: replying to messages
- D: clearing my inbox
4. How do I prefer to travel on a long trip?
- A: by train
- B: by bus
- C: by car
- D: by flight
5. What is the first thing I do when I get home?
- A: change clothes
- B: make a snack
- C: lie down for a bit
- D: put on some music
Make the answers your own
Swap any option for something that fits your group. The "right" answer is simply the one that is true for you — say it out loud after everyone has guessed.
Use them in QuesMo
Any of these works as a four-option question in the QuesMo app. If you want to sharpen your own, read how to make a clear four-option question, or turn an everyday idea into a question. Prefer Hinglish? Try doston se puchne wale sawal.